About long distance relationship's problem
Today I feel so lonely, not because I am alone at home, but I miss my boyfriend so much! Yah, he is so far away from me...and this distance, is very much torturing me.
Somehow I feel, I can understand him as well as a couple which nt separated by distance. But these days, I feel so much confused with his behaviour. I asked him, but he said he was busy. So, what can I do, except I have to be silent and wait his free time.
I want him to know that don't make what has already been hard to be harder. It means, our long distance has already so hard, and he keeps with his silent behaviour, and this make us (especially me) feels more harder. I am so sad with this...
From my experiences, I want to give some suggestions for all of couples who are in long distance relationship.
1. Always set the trust as your both foundation of love.
Trust is the most important thing for long distance relationship. Always say the truth to your partner. We can so easily to cheat or lie them, but don't do that. Because once you break the trust, it will break your love too. Eventhough he/she doesn't know your lie, at least your deepest heart can't lie to you.
2. Create 'comfort feelings'
Comfort feelings mean something which make your partner not wonder to know about you and what you are doing. So, if you can, tell her/him what are you doing now , and if you are super busy, then tell her/him to catch you later. It will make your partner feels to be respected by you and not worry about you too.
3. Make a phone call
Can't touch each other, yes it will be so torturing. But by listening each other voice it can be the best medicine to cure the feelings.
The point when you have long distance relationship is, just make your partner feels so comfort with you. Don't ever hurt your partner feelings, because it has already tough for them to live far away from you. Say the truth and love them sincerely. That will make your both love comes true. And don't forget, respect and understand each other.
Hope he know that i miss him so much nw :(
